but now i would like to change my mind...
Trust is a necessary ingredient for a good friendship or relationship...
but if just trust, that is not enough to maintain a good friendship...
Why i will said so???
What i realized is,no matter how sincere you treat a friend and no matter how you trusted he/she,,,
if he/she not sincere to be friend with you,,is that still a good friendship???
very obvious that the answer is NO!!!NO!!!NO!!!
what I've faced now...
I trusted him very very very much...but now he was the most probability that who was betrayed me...
Get hurt??Yes, a little bit...
seriously,honestly,it was just a little bit...
because he was just a stranger that i just know not more than two months...
I don't care if he want to do so...
i cant control him right??
As the saying goes : " Silence the audio is the best way to prove to others that misunderstanding you..."
So what i will do now is just keep quiet and don't care bout what they gonna to say...
p/s:if you was me what will you do??can teach me??comment to me okay??
Again i emphasize>>>
I AM WHO I AM
IF YOU DON'T LIKE
I DON'T CARE
I'M NOT GONNA TO CHANGE BECAUSE OF YOU
I WILL JUST PROVE TO YOU WHO AM I
THE REAL OF MYSELF
BUT MUST BE YOU WORTH FOR ME TO PROVE TO YOU
IF NOT
I'M SORRY
THAT IS YOUR OWN PROBLEM
NOT MINE
THAT'S ALL!!!
IF YOU DON'T LIKE
I DON'T CARE
I'M NOT GONNA TO CHANGE BECAUSE OF YOU
I WILL JUST PROVE TO YOU WHO AM I
THE REAL OF MYSELF
BUT MUST BE YOU WORTH FOR ME TO PROVE TO YOU
IF NOT
I'M SORRY
THAT IS YOUR OWN PROBLEM
NOT MINE
THAT'S ALL!!!
oiii, are you still ok? Who is that "him" you mention at here(不会是我吧!^^). What can I say...我还是写回华语好了。借这个机会看清“他”的为人也未必是件坏事。所以我说,要相信一个人的却需要一定的勇气,而这勇气很多时候是来自于你对那个人的认识和感觉。加油吧!
ReplyDelete沒有人可以有能力改變另外一個人。
ReplyDelete也沒有人可以爲了某個人而真正的改變。
才兩個月,你要人家給你多少八仙的信任呢?
同樣的,你信任他有多少?
既然你覺得他是一個不值得你去在乎的人,也沒有必要證明些什麽。
不如把心思放在對你真正重要的人身上吧!
如果雙方都可以容忍對方的缺點,那樣的友誼才是珍貴的吧!
如果做不到,也就算了……
如果我是你,我當然就是:
什麽都不管!嘻嘻……不要把別人的煩惱當成自己的煩惱。
這樣的人,很笨。
以我过往的经验,一段友谊不能用时间来衡量的。友谊是一种很微妙的东西。感觉对了便会开怀的坦诚直抒,所以就算认识了一个很久的人也未必能成为最要好的朋友。这是得看缘份与为人的态度吧!
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